Kinkyboys Podcast

10
May

Episode 24: ASMR and the State of London’s kink scene

Today Craig and Adam discuss the phenomenon of ASMR, the unique sensory reaction some people have to select audio stimulus and how this intersects with Kinky play and the debate of is ASMR primarily non sexual.

We also discuss the current challenges facing London's kink community in the face of kink spaces falling victim to the cities ever-increasing gentrification.

todays show is sponsored by how to kill a superhero

Links:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Autonomous_sensory_meridian_response

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12
Oct

Episode 23: beastpup on being a musclebull

Today's guest is Beastpup, a dedicated musclebull who has come on to our show today to talk about how his successful bodybuilding career mixes with his love of muscle growth and how it all ties into his submission and what he is looking for from A D/S relationship.

  • Why being a physically huge sub turns him on, and why size differences in couples is attractive
  • Steroid use: the good, the bad and the honest
  • The stress and extremes needed to get show ready in bodybuilding
  • what it means to identify as a 'bull'
  • Dealing with dysmorphia

If you wish to follow Beastpup's blog to read his articles and see his progress, you can find him at :

http://beastpup.tumblr.com/

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If you would like to comment on anything talked about here today, or want to hear us talk about particular fetishes, or even wish to come on the show to talk about it yourself, you can reach us by Email, Facebook or Twitter at:

kinkyboyspodcast@gmail.com

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6
Oct

Episode 22: Dolan Wolf Part 2

For the conclusion of our interview with adult film actor Dolan Wolf we talk about his major fetish: fisting.We talk further into porn's role in the gay community before cover what beginners need to consider when starting down the road to fisting play, how Dolan himself got into it and what he gets out of the act.
Dolan can be found on twitter at @DolanWolfXXX

If you would like to comment on anything talked about here today, or want to hear us talk about particular fetishes, or even wish to come on the show to talk about it yourself, you can reach us by Email, Facebook or Twitter at:

kinkyboyspodcast@gmail.com

facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast

twitter.com/kinkyboyspod

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22
Jun

Episode 19: cross Continental Kink

Due to Adam moving across the pond we are marking our first cross continental recording with a discussion on the differences we have noticed between kink communities in different parts of the world.
If you would like to comment on anything talked about here today, or want to hear us talk about particular fetishes, or even wish to come on the show to talk about it yourself, you can reach us by Email, Facebook or Twitter at:

kinkyboyspodcast@gmail.com

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4
May

Episode 18: Consent

WARNING: This episode contains descriptions of consent violations both factual and fictitious.

Today Adam and Craig delve into the ins and outs of Consent and kink and BDSM play. From the basics of pre play negotiation and continued consent to more advanced topics and unique issues with consent in kink and BDSM play.

Basic consent ideas

  • How to have a Pre scene discussion

  • What's the difference between hard limits and soft limits

  • Be ready to clearly set ideas, don’t be vague

  • Talk about the reasons behind your limits, don't just give a laundry list.

  • Absence of no isn't the same as yes. The ‘enthusiastic yes’ concept

  • Explain the concept of Continued consent

  • Ongoing discussions in a scene. Both the tops and bottoms responsibility

  • The traffic light system

Advanced consent ideas

  • Dangers of shifting limits in subspace

  • Dangers of going nonverbal

  • Playing without a safeword

  • Implicit expectations of play spaces, darkrooms/orgy rooms ect, knowing the space.

  • Clear ways to give nonverbal consent

  • Clear ways to show nonverbal refusal of Consent

  • How to protect yourself

  • The difficulty with grey areas of consent

    • Violation without a deliberate violator

    • Our thoughts on how to handle  these events as a sub

    • Our thoughts on how to handle events if you're the top in question

    • The concept of rashomon in conflict

For further exploration of these issues and concepts, I highly recommend these episodes of Graydancer’s Ropecast

http://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/4141987

http://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/4251755

http://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/4293354

If you would like to comment on anything talked about here today, or want to hear us talk about particular fetishes, or even wish to come on the show to talk about it yourself, you can reach us by Email, Facebook or Twitter at:

kinkyboyspodcast@gmail.com

facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast

twitter.com/kinkyboyspod

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13
Jan

Episode 15: Saline and Pumping With Pup Sparks, and contest launch

This week we have the lovely Pup Sparks talking us through the do's and DO NOTs of saline and pumping of the balls and cock. We hear about his experiences and errors.

We also are super excited to announce our first ever competition! In celebration of our Sponsor, Pablo Greene, releasing the 3rd how to kill a superhero book we are giving away one of his sexy singlets.
To enter just send us a selfie or an illustration of you as a superhero (pre existing or made up) to kinkyboyspodcast@gmail.com with "superhero selfie" in the subject line. Good Luck!

Also, our guest was kind enough to give us a photo example of the results:
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Feel free to give us your comments, listener letters, topic suggestions and questions you may want answering at:

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@kinkyboyspod on twitter

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26
Nov

Episode 14: High Protocol with Pup Brock and the 1st Mr Puppy UK

This Episode we Talk with the eloquent pup Brock on his experiences using high protocol for his power exchange relationships. We also get a report on how the first Mr Puppy UK went at the 2015 November pup social.

Today we cover:

  • What is meant by "high protocol"
  • Brock's personal experience and examples of high protocol
  • Why would you use protocol and its benefits
  • Safety concerns when using protocol in private and in public
  • The first Mr Puppy UK contest
  • what its been like setting up a contest
  • Advice for those wanting to start a leather/kink title

Feel free to give us your comments, listener letters, topic suggestions and questions you may want answering at:

kinkboyspodcast@gmail.com

facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast

@kinkyboyspod on twitter


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21
Oct

Nipple Play and Muslce Growth with Dadddy Chris

This episode we have Adam's Daddy (and Darts boy) Chris with us today to discuss two of his favorite fetishes: nipple play and muscle growth.
Chris takes us through:

  • How to start nipple play off right. Don't just grab and yank
  • How to best play with them. manipulation techniques.
  • Best and worse toys for nipples and why
  • How to grow your nipples and make them huge.
  • Safety concerns for nipple play

  • What is muscle growth in a BDSM setting
  • The fantasy of 'forced' muscle growth and the reality
  • Growing to please dominant
  • Deliberate uneven growth to make a 'muscle freak'
  • Starting out at the gym
  • Synthol:just say no!
  • Safety concerns for undertaking muscle-growth.

Feel free to give us your comments, listener letters, topic suggestions and questions you may want answering at:

kinkboyspodcast@gmail.com

facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast

@kinkyboyspod on twitter


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29
Sep

Sir Dart on bondage and forced apperance changes

Today we are interviewing a friend of the show Sir Dart; An experienced kink educator, former bounded and gagged model, host of the darts domain podcast and Adam's Grand-Daddy.
Dart today talks with Adam and Craig about his history with bondage as well as his view on forcing appearance changes on someone as a form of domination, dealing with one of his biggest mistakes in a scene and much more.
we cover:

  • Dart's exposure to bondage and his 'coming out' about his kinky side
  • Acting in porn
  • First bondage experiences in bars
  • The differences between Shibari and practical bondage
  • The Psychology behind forced transformations and appearances
  • Personal experiences with Forced changes to appearances
  • The difficulties of coming out about an uncommon or unique fetish
  • The pros and cons of analyzing the roots of a fetish for people
  • Learning from your mistakes and putting other peoples safety before pride and ego
  • Mistakes in play we have made
  • dealing with jealousy and feeling compersion

Dart can be found as @DartsDomain on twitter and his blog and podcast are found at www.sirdart.com

fell free to give us your comments, listener letter, topic suggestions and questions you may want answering at:

kinkboyspodcast@gmail.com


@kinkyboyspod on twitter


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19
Aug

Episode 9: Barebacking as a fetish, cultural narratives of safe sex,

This episode we have sexual health worker and former pornstar Jason in our new studio to talk about the nature of barebacking as a fetish and it's evolution in tandem with safe sex messages. We discuss:

  • The fetishisation of condom-less sex due to it becoming a taboo
  • Reasons for barebacking
  • Jason's experiences in porn
  • The current attitudes sexual health
  • Safety steps for bareback
  • the psychology of the BBBH
  • The cultural messages of gay sex being dangerous
  • Eroticising condom usage
  • What is a bottoms best friend?

If you wish to write in with questions, suggestions, comments or feedback contact us at

EMAIL: Kinkboyspodcast@gmail.com
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