Kinkyboys Podcast

10
May

Episode 24: ASMR and the State of London’s kink scene

Today Craig and Adam discuss the phenomenon of ASMR, the unique sensory reaction some people have to select audio stimulus and how this intersects with Kinky play and the debate of is ASMR primarily non sexual.

We also discuss the current challenges facing London's kink community in the face of kink spaces falling victim to the cities ever-increasing gentrification.

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Links:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Autonomous_sensory_meridian_response

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1
Dec

World AIDS Day Minisode

Rembering those who are no longer with Us.

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12
Oct

Episode 23: beastpup on being a musclebull

Today's guest is Beastpup, a dedicated musclebull who has come on to our show today to talk about how his successful bodybuilding career mixes with his love of muscle growth and how it all ties into his submission and what he is looking for from A D/S relationship.

  • Why being a physically huge sub turns him on, and why size differences in couples is attractive
  • Steroid use: the good, the bad and the honest
  • The stress and extremes needed to get show ready in bodybuilding
  • what it means to identify as a 'bull'
  • Dealing with dysmorphia

If you wish to follow Beastpup's blog to read his articles and see his progress, you can find him at :

http://beastpup.tumblr.com/

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If you would like to comment on anything talked about here today, or want to hear us talk about particular fetishes, or even wish to come on the show to talk about it yourself, you can reach us by Email, Facebook or Twitter at:

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6
Oct

Episode 22: Dolan Wolf Part 2

For the conclusion of our interview with adult film actor Dolan Wolf we talk about his major fetish: fisting.We talk further into porn's role in the gay community before cover what beginners need to consider when starting down the road to fisting play, how Dolan himself got into it and what he gets out of the act.
Dolan can be found on twitter at @DolanWolfXXX

If you would like to comment on anything talked about here today, or want to hear us talk about particular fetishes, or even wish to come on the show to talk about it yourself, you can reach us by Email, Facebook or Twitter at:

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28
Sep

Episode 21: Dolan Wolf Part 1

Adult Film star andpowerbotom Dolan wolf joins us today to discuss his work in the gayporn industy, His views on how masculinity is viewed in gay and kinkyculture and what role porn has in shaping our expectation andfetishes.

Next week in part 2we will be looking at Dolans favorite fetish: Fisting.

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If you would like to comment on anything talked about here today, or want to hear us talk about particular fetishes, or even wish to come on the show to talk about it yourself, you can reach us by Email, Facebook or Twitter at:

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5
Jul

Episode 20: cross continental kink part 2: Hungary

Today we interview Daniel about the kink scene in Hungary and about the event he's planing.

The essay mentioned in the podcast: https://fetlife.com/users/3899639/posts/3806338

If you would like to comment on anything talked about here today, or want to hear us talk about particular fetishes, or even wish to come on the show to talk about it yourself, you can reach us by Email, Facebook or Twitter at:

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22
Jun

Episode 19: cross Continental Kink

Due to Adam moving across the pond we are marking our first cross continental recording with a discussion on the differences we have noticed between kink communities in different parts of the world.
If you would like to comment on anything talked about here today, or want to hear us talk about particular fetishes, or even wish to come on the show to talk about it yourself, you can reach us by Email, Facebook or Twitter at:

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4
May

Episode 18: Consent

WARNING: This episode contains descriptions of consent violations both factual and fictitious.

Today Adam and Craig delve into the ins and outs of Consent and kink and BDSM play. From the basics of pre play negotiation and continued consent to more advanced topics and unique issues with consent in kink and BDSM play.

Basic consent ideas

  • How to have a Pre scene discussion

  • What's the difference between hard limits and soft limits

  • Be ready to clearly set ideas, don’t be vague

  • Talk about the reasons behind your limits, don't just give a laundry list.

  • Absence of no isn't the same as yes. The ‘enthusiastic yes’ concept

  • Explain the concept of Continued consent

  • Ongoing discussions in a scene. Both the tops and bottoms responsibility

  • The traffic light system

Advanced consent ideas

  • Dangers of shifting limits in subspace

  • Dangers of going nonverbal

  • Playing without a safeword

  • Implicit expectations of play spaces, darkrooms/orgy rooms ect, knowing the space.

  • Clear ways to give nonverbal consent

  • Clear ways to show nonverbal refusal of Consent

  • How to protect yourself

  • The difficulty with grey areas of consent

    • Violation without a deliberate violator

    • Our thoughts on how to handle  these events as a sub

    • Our thoughts on how to handle events if you're the top in question

    • The concept of rashomon in conflict

For further exploration of these issues and concepts, I highly recommend these episodes of Graydancer’s Ropecast

http://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/4141987

http://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/4251755

http://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/4293354

If you would like to comment on anything talked about here today, or want to hear us talk about particular fetishes, or even wish to come on the show to talk about it yourself, you can reach us by Email, Facebook or Twitter at:

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1
Apr

Episode 17: Pro domming and Bootblacking with Sir Dave

Today our guest is the wonderful Sir Dave, who is here to talk about his experiences working as a Pro dom as well as his passion for bootblacking.

If you would like to comment on anything talked about here today, or want to hear us talk about particular fetishes, or even wish to come on the show to talk about it yourself, you can reach us by Email, Facebook or Twitter at:

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8
Feb

Episode 16:Furry porn Fetishes, recon’s bot problem and kink comunity drama

In light of the recent news article about Tony the tiger being bombarded with fury porn, we thought it would be timely to talk about the often niche fetishes found in furry porn.
We also have a discussion about what to do when names in a comunity stur up drama and recons growing bot problem

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